/*From Tew| connection
:FlashIrcServer.1 353 Tewl = %#channel :AFNV,Tom UMNN,Tewl UFPN,Sue AMPN,Joe
[A,U] - The first letter can be A or U. A for Away or U for not away.
[u,F,M] - The second letter can be M for male, F for female, or U for unknown gender
[N,P] - The third letter represents wether the user has a picture in their profile. P for with pic, N for without.
[V,N] - The last letter tells if the user has voice in the channel or not. V for has voice, N for without.
*/
Its in your connection that you grab information for the gender and if there is a picture.
on login a room you parse the 353 and after that its the join. You will have to modify Moschino to be ChatDrive 1 (CD1) as Travis said.
This is the end result. Thanks to TheGateKeeper and Tew|.